Theory 11: Social Penetration Theory
States that as relationships develop, people's level of communication go from superficial to much more personal topics, slowly penetrating a persons public face to their more private, personal face (or toward their sense of self). It's considered to be a cyclical and dialectical path rather than just continuous. Persons have to work through tensions in the relationship, sometimes reverting back through stages and then quickly penetrating forward again- this is the cyclical. Sometimes though people within relationships need their space or are busy with other things that the relationship suffers to be less open. Social Penetration Theory argues that these cycles occur throughout the entire relationship, it does not just simply stop because the people involved have become best friends, or married.How I apply to my internship, two ways:
First, I think that on Facebook and Twitter, TNM is constantly advocating to build stronger relationships with our audience. Attempting to penetrate the public persona to learn about people in a deeper sense so that they not only support us, but we can support them to build our TNM community. I think this is applicable to the SPT, because we are constantly negotiating the cycles of STP.
Second, after yesterday I think this is really applicable with me and my boss Rodney. I thought that we had a stronger more OPEN relationship. Unfortunately, if I'm not persistent to maintain contact with him, then like the theory states the relationship suffers and becomes less open. I had known that Rodney was launching in Seattle, I just didn't know he was moving up there. Because my perception of our relationship this news was not only shocking but kind of disappointing. I mean, if they're going to be more successful in Seattle then that is awesome for TNM. Rodney and I only met a few times this semester anyhow, but I'm still just slightly surprised and taken aback, because I thought we had gone further in our relationship and didn't think we would retract so much.
Tasks: this theory piece, planning out interview questions, looking up Rodney and tweeting.
Total Hours: 140